It's amazing how you possess such a deep insight into human psychology and behaviour. Thanks for the wonderful lessons which we all can learn from and implement in our very own lives.

You put down some really amazing points which people DO tend to overrate from time to time, such as physical attractiveness, extraversion, previous track records and warm words from others. I'm sure many more can be added to this list, which will occur to you in due course of time, which you will ultimately publish here one day (hopefully?) :-)